NEED REASONABLE ADVICE. Is it ok for a girl that likes me and vice versa to do stuff with another guy?

Ok so I have an issue and I need all the advice and opinions from others, so please, WELL THOUGHTOUT answers only.





I have been friends with this girl for 8 months now. We know each other very very well and know everything about about one another. We both began to like each other but didnt date. Eventually we liked each other even more and we still didnt date. To try to keep this short, she ended up doing stuff with my best friend. They both knew about it and wouldnt tell me because they knew I would be upset. I confronted her about it, and she feels she didnt do anything wrong because we were dating. But We both like each other more then anyone else.





Do you think it was ok for her to fool around with my best friend and not tell me even though we both really really liked each other and were planning to go out?





She she said that she was to busy with school to date (were all 18+) but who isnt you know? She also admits to cheating on every other boyfriend she had.NEED REASONABLE ADVICE. Is it ok for a girl that likes me and vice versa to do stuff with another guy?
your best friend sold you out man... he knew it all along and he took the opportunity to fool with her.





Girls on the other hand..... will go for anyone that gives them attention and whoever makes the move on her.


It takes two to tango, so it's both your friend and the girl's fault...





leave your friend, leave the girl.. you don't need back stabbers in your circle.. think about it, she isn't worth it in the long run, it just shows the truth about her. Don't even bother making her apologies, hold your head high and brush it off... don't let s.h.i.t.s like that affect you.NEED REASONABLE ADVICE. Is it ok for a girl that likes me and vice versa to do stuff with another guy?
get a new girl


for goodness sake


she had foresaken u replaced you with your best bud


bros before whor3s dude?
Why on earth would you want a girl who has admitted to cheating on every other boyfriend she's had? If she really cared about you, she would never have done anything with your best friend.





My advice is to forget about her. She would be nothing but trouble, and you could never trust her.





Your best friend wasn't much of a friend either if he knew you liked this girl. Best friends don't do that.





Find some new friends. There are plenty of people out there! Good luck!
If she wasn't going out with you neither her or your friend did anything wrong. Personally I think you should be a bit more mature about it.
I would find another girlfriend who is loyal, hangs with me, is honest and does not want to be around other guys.





Girls like that are cheap, they want lots of guys to be close to, make bad girlfriends and end up in trouble.





She is not good for you.
First of all you can not make her do anything, and getting he to admit she was wrong is not a victory for you she now thinks you are a jerk. If you liked her some much you should not have beat around the bush and just came out and asked her. She did nothing wrong.





She was either never planning on going out with you or wanted by best friend all along and was using you to get to him. She was using a very lame reason not to go out with you (she had time for him didn't she?) Dump her and move on, your friend is not at fault either. Blame this one on your blind lust for her and you not being able to see anything past it.
I think this girl is having you on. I also think you should have made a move to be exclusive by now anyway if you are that important to each other - she's not going to hang around forever. She didn't really do anything wrong if you haven't agreed to be exclusive, however, it would seem to me she can't be as keen on you as vice versa. Would you have fooled around with someone else? Obviously, your best friend a) isn't b) made a move on her. Would you have done that to your 'best friend'? No way. They both knew you woudl be upset, and did it anyway. Forget the both of them would be my advice. You deserve someone who likes you as much and in the same way as you like them. If she cheats on every boyfriend ........ she'll cheat on you. Move on and be glad you aren't serious with this girl. If they are serious about each other, well, that happens, and you may decide to stay friend, but it all depends how honestly they go about it.
I think if you really liked each other, you would be together, no excuses.


It was disrespectful of her, and your friend to mess around considering they both know how you feel.


You can't make someone apologise. If they are sorry they will do it all on their own.


Basically she doesn't seem to be very mature, and obviously she can't commit - once a cheater, always a cheater. Honestly I don't think she's worth it.