Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Dating a guy for 2 months wants to watch me get it on with another girl?? Help need advice?

Ok Im 25 he is 30 we have been dating now for 2 months we are not as of yet bf/gf, he has a fantasy to see two girls get it on. He and I are having sex and its great. I would like to fill this fantasy for him. But what I need to know is if I do this will he still see me as girlfriend material? Or is he just using me? I know he like me and wants to have a realtionship, but is he seeing me as just a good for now girl or will I have potiental in being the there forever girl for him.. Any of your adivce is helpful and thanks in advance.Dating a guy for 2 months wants to watch me get it on with another girl?? Help need advice?
My fantasy is richer and my girlfriend refuses to participate too:





I am tied up on an “X” shaped cross dressed in red velvet, like Santa, horizontally positioned one meter over the floor, while a virgin girl of eighteen, standing over my face is pissing on me. Another girl has my member in her mouth, biting gently the glans while a third one, dressed in a nurse uniform gives me an enema with “Cordon Rouge” champagne.





Girls, girls, participate!!! Our respect for you will be greater.Dating a guy for 2 months wants to watch me get it on with another girl?? Help need advice?
Listen all guy fantasy about stuff like that and dont put yourself out like that or he may take advantage. So wait about another 2 months


then if thinks you are not enough for him then do it one time and that way he can start thinking of you in a different way or you can dump him.
i don't if he wants to be your boyfriend or not.but i know alot of guys that like that sort of thing and doesn't think less of the girl. the real question is ''do you want to do'' and if so do it. And if you are doing it just for him say forget it. It all boils down to want you really want to do.
Talk to him before hand and be honest about it. Tell him how you feel and if he is only there for one thing then you know what to do. Get rid of him!!!!!! Maybe you could full fill his dream later on down the track when you are actually officially a couple so that way you feel more confortable!! Just be honest and if you feel comfortable with him then go for it!!
Simple...only do this if it's something you want to do as well...don't do this just for the sake of satisfying his fantasy...he's not necessarily using you because he has a fantasy and has shared it with you, but he's also not looking to be exclusive with you, apparently. This relationship probably won't last forever if you go down this road right now...fantasies like this are easier to share after you've built a high level of trust and intimacy with your partner...





Good luck whatever you decide to do!
dump him ur his toy
dont even. girl you need to leave him but if your up to that nasty girl on girl thing then go ahead do you
Move on,DUMP him he is USING u
the only reason you should ever do something is because you wanted to. if he tries to persuade you to do something you have no interest in he is using you. tell him if he gets it on with another man then you will get it on with a woiman and he will shut up.
Tell him you are not that kind of girl, and that you have more respect for yourself. more then what he has for you! If you do this, you are doing it for him. He does not care about you, you are a toy to him, who will do anything he tells you to do! He is not relationship material, trust me, and one who asks you to do something like that, is a player, and he is thinking only of himself! I want you to find someone, who will be satisfied with just you! Have a great holiday!
Don't do it.Dump him.


He is using you.


Look at yourself and think ,';i won't ever fill that fantasy for him.';


Is he really worth it?No guy is.


Look at yourself now and think ,';he can fill that fantasy on his own.';


Don't ever do something that stupid just for a guy.


They spread it and then you will be the sorry one in the turn-out.
If you want your relationship to go further and stronger, DON'T FULFILL ANYONE'S FANTASY. DON'T DO IT. You'll regret it. Guys will try to test you see what you will and will not do.





Practical Advise: Don't be so willing to jump and please your guy. Sometimes the word No is good.
do it, he will join in on the action.
he is not serious about the relationship. why would somebody you just met, wants you to sleep with another girl. lose him.find someone who cares about you as a person .
It seems like u are his sex toy...but anyways that is gross that u would even think about having sex with another girl just to make him happy......are u sure ur not bi?
no, if he wants to see 2 girls get it on , he can pay 2 prostitutes to do it. i think you would be decreasing your opportunity of having him as a ';regular boyfriend'; if you participate in this.....
I can tell you that he doesn't want to just ';watch'; he wants to participate. And all you have to do is ask yourself this... Do you want to be in a relationship where he will always want you to sleep with other people? because once you open that door there is no way to close it.
let me no so i can be there?
I would not do that for him because you are not his fantasy toy. Tell him to get 2 hoes and they can do it and you can both watch.
If he respected you he would not be asking you to do that kind of thing. You have only been going out for 2 months and he is already treating you like a piece of meat to make himself happy. It appears to me that he isn't concerned about how you might feel about it. that tells me that he is using you and he does not think of you as a forever girlfriend but as a convenience. DUMP HIM
So you are porking him at only 2 months and totally willing to do whatever he wants in the hope he wants to have you forever. Wake up, girlfriend. Where are you in this? Why are you so willing to just do this guy's bidding?
Ok,Im not very good at this relationship stuff.But if he likes you,he would like for you.not for what you do for him.if your confused,just talk to him.if you want him to love you,or be with you for the rest of your lives,he would understand that your confused and dont think thats right,he will understand.
Tell this dick your not a hore if he likes to watch other people have sex then rent a tape. What ever you decide try not to degrade yourself.
You're being used. If you really want to do it, wait and see if he asks you to be his girlfriend, then think about it.





Oh yeah, don't forget, if you really care for him, you might end up regretting it later, and feeling jealous.
Don't fall for this, this is just a pretext to try and get both of you in bed at the same time. Unless you really want to do it for yourself, don't go along. Otherwise you will harbor resentment that will eventually come back.
go for it see where it goes if he leaves let him at least you will still have someone in bed ya know
ewwwwwww


he's using you.


that would make u a lesb
you should be with him more than two months before you get into that kind of experiment.then after you know him than you should consider having that girl on girl action.i think he is not using you at all.he just want to see your hot body with another girl so he can get turn on when he is watching his girlfriend.so just wait awhile before you leap into it.
u sound like a nice sex toy.
It's really pretty obvious he's using you for sex and is being incredibly selfish too. I think since you are wise enough to question his motives, you could be wise enough to realize you deserve much better, and not a lover who is all about what he wants.

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