(Guys only) i need advice! looking for a girl?

Anyways i need help starting conversation with girls. im not that shy i say whats on my mind all the time. but when it comes to a girl i got a crush on or a girl has a crush on me. i have no idea what to say? please help.





Something other than hi or hello or can i sit next to you or the worse im bored how bout you thats all i allways get when i ask tell me the next step of the conversation?(Guys only) i need advice! looking for a girl?
You need to be more observant of things they are interested in, and then ask them a lot of questions about that. People in general love to talk about themselves, to people who seem geniunely interested.





You can make that a whole lot easier by joining a club or group that does something you're really interested in and finding a girl there, since she'll already have similar interests.





Otherwise, like I said, be observant. Everyone offers some hints of what they're into, one way or another. Figure that out and then ask some questions about it. And don't just seem interested in it, BE interested in it. That will let her know you're actually really interested in her.(Guys only) i need advice! looking for a girl?
You have two views on females: the female friend and the female target.





Get it in your mind that all females are your friends, whether they be crushes or not...once you can realize that, then you wont be as nervous around them.





The nervousness stems from FEAR.


FEAR of saying the wrong thing that would make them dislike you or worse.


Stop worrying about what they will think of you, be calm, be natural, be funny...if a girl cant understand your humor or dislikes your words when you are just being yourself...then she is not the right one for you.





The worse a girl would do is walk away.


If a girl throws a tantrum about it, it is most likely not your fault, it is due to her having a bad day, she is a psycho, or she is just not friendly to anyone.
ADVICE i personally want to give to you is


have guts


don't be shy girls don't like to waste their time on this


be caring and have respect


don't play with their feelings don't be like the minute i love you and then another minutes you say you just love them as friends


have time for them when they talk and answer sensible


talk about something you like about her


say what you feel like express it to her


be brave loving caring
well for starters you should nevere say im bored, that says to them jeez i cant find anything better to do can we talk.





things you can talk about, music , things you like to do, you need to find some common ground, so that when you talk its a decent conversation.


thats the best advice i can give you find common ground and go from there
how about just go up to her and ask her to the movie.


say..


hey, the new incredible hulk movie is coming out this weekend.


did you know that?


...she'll be like..yeah...i wanted to see it..


then u go..


';who will you be seeing it with this weekend?


hopefully, she said..';no one';


and you jump in and said..


do you wanna go see it with me...


there you go..
did you see XYZ on tv?





Where do you work?





ask her for help with something.





basically ther key is to ask an open ended question, something that will lead on to more conversation. can i sit here is a yes or no answer.





where do you work, what is your favourite etc can always lead onto more talking
Sure! One thing I have noticed about girls is that they like being asked things. Ask them their favorite color...what their favorite place to eat or hang out...do they like going to the mall...that kind of stuff. I think it is great that you say what's on your mind. There are very few like that!
it's easy to approach women especially if your sure you like them.





Just straight up approach them and say





Hello my name is...... Nice to meet you. I've noticed you for a while now and i was wondering if you would like to take time off your schedule to maybe have dinner sometime. Give her your card and walk away
i would love a guy to just come up 2 me n just chat about random stuff honestly. im too shy to go up to them. if u know what they are into just be confident n start talking to her. n if theres sparks flying prior to that then you're half way there.





(i kno its ';guys only'; but just wana help :)





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Be fake. Don't be yourself, it's the biggest trap in the world. Just do whatever you think the girl is looking for. And don't let an awkward silence fall, if it does point it out with a joke (the awkward silence) that'll keep you going.
Alright here is what to say (I promise you, its worked for me)





Hey how you doing GIRLFRIEND? So whatcha doing today? Well I'm pretending to be a DNA polymerase so I can unzip your jeans today o.O
Try to be cool and witty, just make general convo, hey, how are you, so what you been up to... that way you would talk to your mates.
talk about something mutal, something you have in common, just dont try tooo hard, she will be able to tell, but its sweet u want to really try
Ray I've answered this question already. This is the second time you've asked this. You really need the love guru. Go right up to this girl or woman and ask if she'd like to go out.
find wht shes intrasted in and let it flow give it time and just start talking or u can ask her friends wht shes liked and there u go just dnt drown her with questions
Say what she wants 2 hear which is like 4 example i could just swim in those eyes, Beautiful .


but only if your man enough.
Since you already tried being yourself I guess your just unattractive... try getting a face implant.
be urself in every position or situation you r in
talk about what she's wearing, even make fun of it, then compliment her, they put alot of thought into that crap, but they like it when u notice it
Say: Can I suck your dick?


If she says no, offer to let her suck your dick.
Just make fun of something on them like piercings or their makeup. They love that.
Just start speaking about general stuff, you know music, hobbies....etc
Yeah , i need advice too (:
walk up to her n say i love you and i always will..see wha happens :P
ask her if she wants to go to dinner
make a joke just dont stare at their rack!!!!!
I not know