For 10 points guys (or girls) please i need help so i will give you best answer if u give good advice?

the guy i like in my school found out i like him. he apparently likes me a little and people are trying to get him to ask me out, even though i told them. although this sounds weird i have never even really talked to him much, so i dont know how i would confront him. i definately dont have the courage let alone the confidence to ask him out myself. he is fairly shy. any sugggestions? anything will help. and no im not giving up on him. i really like him and if i have a chance i would like to take it. help?For 10 points guys (or girls) please i need help so i will give you best answer if u give good advice?
try this............ Will you go out with me (please circle)


Yes No





in a note of course....that way it's not a face to face akward thingFor 10 points guys (or girls) please i need help so i will give you best answer if u give good advice?
You guys could go out in groups. So, get to know him more. Or ask for his email address and you could chat with him online. Good Luck!
just go up and say hi. find out what he likes that interest you and then try and talk to him friendly. if there is anything there it will develop. good luck .
THEN GO FOR IT!!! COME ON!!! HE LIKES YOU! YOU LIKE HIM! GO UP TO HIM!!! eheh... j/k j/k.. i know how it is to be in that situation... I've been in the same exact place for a while until my b/f asked me out.. LOL... really.. if he doesn't make the first move.. you go for it... gently say hi to him ever single day. I mean, a gentle ';hi'; wont hurt anyone especially if you and him like each other.... butta yeah, don't let time pass you by though. I mean, you don't want to say hi to him only... eheh... try saying hi for a week, then how are you doing... then phone numbers, emails, or whatnot...and start a conversation!! Butta yeah, notes are kinda romantic-ish....even though it's still childish and all, but if you think about it... if you can't talk.. might as well write! eheh... and obviously if he likes you too... YAY! GO FOR IT! =]
It doesn't have to be an all or nothing thing. Just start talking to him as a friend. Get to know him %26amp; things will blossom from there if it's meant to be. It's much easier too!
If u like this guy then talk to consistly and flirt with him and if he doesn't ask you out then just ask him.
if he knows you like him and he is shy then yes ask him on a date whats wrong with that. he is probably to shy to ask you if your a hot chic, my friend asked her husband to marry her and they have been married for 5 years now. take a chance at this,


if you don't you might not ever get asked out by him go ahead and get it over with.
Since he is shy. Start out easy... Something simple like a smile when passing in the halls to a hi and wave. If he responds then maybe pass him a note or stick one in his locker.





If he likes you, I bet his heart is pounding everytime he sees you and the nerves..oh man.. he's shaking in his boots but in a good way.. sooo.. if you really like him take it easy and do the note thing first, maybe emailing one another to IM's. Usually email and IM's help break the ice..





Good Luck!
you both are punks. but that's okay. find out his email address from a homeboy and write to him. tell him how you feel. for some people it's easier to write than to say what's really good. or you could get someone to discreetly slip him your number. if you do that he has the option at moving the way he really wants to. if he wants you he'll holla. but you should think about boosting up you confidence level because it's the sexiest thing a woman can have real talk.
You don't have to confront him. You like him and he already knows this. So when you see him just smile and say Hi, If it's meant to be it will be. believe me I don't think he will look at your smile as being confrontational, just nice. good luck.
well if u really like him ask him out in a note or somethin.


yes u could take that chance to another level.
Honestly, just leave it alone. It's already a public matter know, everybody knows your situation now, so if you ask him out or even confront him, people are going to be watching a close eye to see if you get rejected, and if you do...it will be embarrassing, because everybody will be talking about it. And I know you don't want to be known as the ';girl who got rejected';. Don't worry, if this guy really likes you, he will ask you out, and if not, there will be plenty more guys out there...trust me. Good luck.
You should just go up and talk to him! By spending more time talking to him you'll see what he's really like, and then you might feel comfortable asking him out or he might ask you out. You need to talk to him more though!
well first off meet him somewhere and get to kno eachother first then when you kno eachother a little bit more then ask him out either in a note or ask one of your friendsto ask him!!! if he says no then just ask to be friends with him and maybe after a while he might start liking you!
first off don't ask him out just because you're friends think it's a good idea and 2nd if he's shy he probably likes you more than a little. Shy guys tend to treat girls better...but it sounds like you're pretty young, so i'd play the waiting game. Go hang out with him and give him the hint and let him ask you out
ASK him out or you will regret later. Some guys are like girls, they can't make the first move. You don't even have to directly ask him out just flirt and in your case a whole lot for the guy to ask you out himself.
as much as men hate to admit it they like when women are aggressive...........baby go after what you want.....shock him!!!! But dont over do it you dont want to come off too strong good luck!!!!
The only way your ever going to be with him is if your get a little confidence. You only live once. Then worst he could say is no and chances are he wont so just go for it and If your still in school and if he does say no, so what, he'll forget about it and so will everyone else when the next drama day (which will be tomorrow) happens. I use to be the same way but if you never take chances your will never live.
same situation happened to me and hes too shy to confront you so you have to gain the confidence to ask him. I know its extremely hard to ask someone out especially if your a girl asking a guy out so what i did was i was online and i asked him out in an im. I know pretty stupid but it works and it will be easier for him to answer and for you to ask.
go up to him and say, ';Hi Joe! How is everything? I was wondering if you would like to go to the movies sometimes';? He will say yes or no.
I would write him a note and stick it in his locker, give it to him yourself, or get a friend to give it to him.
do one of two things


1. just ask him out yourself but not in from of a group of people (too nerve wrecking)


-or-


2. have a mutual friend set up a small group date with like 4 or 6 people (not too many people because it will decrease the amount of time you will have with him)


...good luck





-but whatever you do, do not give up on him if you like him that much and if he likes you. nothing more annoying that wasted love
just start to talk to him and maybe you will end up liking him more than you first thought and dont worry about other ppl just be your self and he doesnt like you for who you are you dont need him





if you want more advice you can email me kllr_kitty@yahoo.com


good luck
If you really like him, get to know him, ask him hows hes doing. Thats always a conversation starter. And if your serious about liking him, then just talk to him alittle more and more each day. You never know, one day after having a great conversation with him you may just get a note asking you out!





Listen to your heart. If you really want to go out with him your best bet is to ask him out yourself. or maybe hes the kind of guy that does't want to rush into a relationship.Give him some time. Talk to him, Get to know him and let him know you. Remember;listen to your heart
a group date would be a great idea or just go balls out and go on a date alone
you seem to be at the point in your life when writting notes to one another is frequent.


write him a note ask him to go out with you . let him know date time place activity that this will involve . i dont mean sex i mean if you have it in your head to go some place for a swim then let him know .


include in the note that you need him to let you know if he accepts your request or not .


i know that its all the rage to let your friends in on every detail of a date or crush but i would leave this one out of the gossip circle.


i hope you have fun on your date .


oh dont plan anything to expense this thing could just be coming over to your house to watch a movie or it could be swimming


what ever you pick consider will this activity be enough that even if we dont talk to each other much we can still be ocupied with the activity and end up both finding that it was ok .


casual fun relaxing friendly cheap sort of activities are best .


once you have been alone with him talk will start to come easier


for both of you and after this date and a few more dates will not be as big a deal as they seem to be right now.


again i stress keep the details you know what i mean out of the gossip circles. if anyone presses you just say we get along together were friends he is my boyfriend and that is all i will tell you if you want to know more go get a boyfriend yourself and see what happens on dates.
Well first off ,,,The situation between you and him is no ones business ,,,, nor should they try to intervene regardless of their intentions ,,,, This is your affair no one elses ,,,,Secondly ,,,, It's not proper etiquette for a girl to ask a guy out ,,,, But there's nothing that says it's wrong for a girl to go up to him ,,,, say like at school ,,,, and start a conversation with him ,,,, That can't necessarily be seen as being forward or bold ,,,, You said he is shy ,,,, Well ,,,, Simply going up to him to talk just might be the thing to do to sort of like maybe break the ice so to speak and enable him to respond ,,,, if he does seem a little tense or on edge then appologise to him by saying that you don't mean to put him on edge or make him feel uncomfortable and that you'll just leave if your being there bothers him ,,,, See how he will respond ,,,, Usually ,,,,, When a guy is on edge or shy with a girl and he is given the option to be left alone they won't take it ,,,, If he does like you then he's not going to want you to go but just hasn't got the nerve to say so ,,,, That being the case ,,,, then just let nature take it's course and go from there ,,,, You said you have a problem with being shy yourself but that's something only you can deal with ,,,, If you could figure out some question to ask him to start off with then it shouldn't be too hard to just open the conversation that way ,,,, All either of you have to do is simply begin ,,,, Things can progress from that point ,,,, You don't have anything to loose by trying ,,,,He can't kill you or even make you bleed and you just might wind up with a positive or desirable situation ,,,, Give it a try and good luck ,,,
try flirting with other guys in front of him. not to much now. just a little and he will say to himself i better get her, before he does. and if he don't then he really didn't like you good enough then.
almost the same thing happened to me the 2nd week of school. I started talking to the guy just like hey and stuff like that, and then I got the courage to ask him if he wanted to hang out at a football game, and that night he asked me out!





I would just start talking to him and let it go from there!
Well if you both dont really know one another thats the first step! get to know one another. dont rush into a relationship, take it slow- progress. if you want to ask him somewhere without officially asking him out, suggest going to starbucks and just talking maybe get something good to drink there, grab some lunch sometime, Do something simple and easy that will give yall time to talk and get to know one another. the best relationships are those that are not rushed. Also, dont let friends and other peers pressure yall into hooking up that will just tear you away from one another! I hope this has helped...its not the 10 points im after, i have been in your position before and i know what its like! Good luck sweetie!
Well i have been here before, I asked my best friend to go up ti him and tell him to have i friend with u for there guts. So he did and we meet during lunch. So he came up to us and said u wanted to talk so he told me all the thing that he liked about me so than his friend and my friend pushed us together and he whispered something on my ear and i can still here to this day forward. He told me his cell number and his aim so that we could talk. I don't know if this helped or not if not please tell me. Oh yeah just have your closest friend to come with u they will all ways be there for u no matter what remember they will all ways love u no matter what.