I need some advice and some opinions for my girl. She had a baby by a guy within the first year of dating.?

There wasn't nothing he wouldn't do for her. Then she picked up and left for 6 weeks due to housing/family problems. When she came back he was a different person and he won't take care of her child. He found another girl and he started beating on her and he didn't treat my friend in such manner. She doesn't understand why he is abandoning her child and still with this other girl for two years. This has broken her spirit and self worth. How should she handle this and from a man's point of view, what's up with this guy. He won't come see his child or call. My friend is a stong, independent girl in her early twenties with her own place. This other girl is younger with a car.I need some advice and some opinions for my girl. She had a baby by a guy within the first year of dating.?
Is he paying child support?





Seems like he's moved on........doesn't care about the past, (even his responsibilities)





I'd advise her to move on, don't look for him to be something he's not.








Luck





The child support comment is because people like that seem great, will go out and ruin someones life, then their answer is commonly, ';It;s not my fault, problem, responsibility............';





Well........it is, the State will help him see that it is.I need some advice and some opinions for my girl. She had a baby by a guy within the first year of dating.?
Could be that he is upset that she had left, and didn't say anything to him at all. She needs to find a way of raising her own child, and forget about him. She also needs to go to court, and don't let him get visitation for his child at all. She needs him to pay child support since he isn't support his own child, and has become a totally jerk.
What is his background like? In other words, show me his father and I'll show you him in a few years. There is no excuse for what this person has done, was going to call him young man......... but he isn't owed that respect....... a Man doesn't abandon his child ... no matter what. If he beats woman, he will certainly abuse the child.. I know this is hard to hear but she should thank her lucky stars that he isn't in her life for right now.


Has her father raised her to where she knows her self-worth, she needs counseling and if you care for her ... please tell her it's not only for her but for her child's future.


Shiny new toys always attract the immature male that can't respect himself much less anyone else. He's acting out , and until he grows up he's no good to her or that child.


Love doesn't hurt, Love is kind.... tell her to love herself to life and get herself together for her little family... and be blessed he's someone elses mistake.