Stay away from them. Forget about them. You are only 13. You have a lot of time ahead of you to meet decent men when you are older. Don't waste your time trying to impress these little boys right now. spend you time with friends and family, focus on school, and eventually they will flock to you. Just don't be so anxious.Any advice for a 13 yr old girl about guys?
Guys are the devil!
I mean this in the best way, so don't get mad. You are only 13, you need to be a kid right now. It goes so fast, don't try to grow up so quickly. You could take some time, try to lose some weight and that would make you feel better about yourself and that would give you more confidence. Men like women who are confident, not shy and quiet. Exercise, diet and maybe get a hair cut or do something to make you feel better, then the guys will start noticing. But for now, focus on other things, not guys.
Hey girl. Im an older teen, so take it from me. I just got plunged into an unexpected crush, too, so im there.
Logic. its nowhere near as fun, but it will help you. when you find yoruself swooning, step back and look at the situation logically. (this includes actually thinking, is this guy a good guy for me?)
Find ways to have fun! The worst thing you can do is moon over someone forever. It will pass eventually, bu tin the meantime, get ultra involved in school activiteis. Expose yourself to other guys so you have perspective, and have fun with your girlfriends! Plus, guys are attracted to girls who are funny and quietly confidant (you dont have to be loud about it)
Dont worry about your so called chubbiness. im in highschool and personality counts for soooo much more than looks. any guy who's into you will be into you for your self, not your looks.
Talk to a trusted person. try and relieve that sad part of you so you can find the happy part of you in school.
Be aware of your own needs as a blossoming young lady. be realistic about your need -like all other human being- for love, a sense of belonging, and security.
Crying is natural. guys do it all the time. scared by it? depends on the guy. anyway, thats trivial. and hey! remember crushes are will-nilly, theres no order to them. you can't make someone like you.
p.s I've never dated anyone and im in my late teens, so don't worry about that earlier. im saving my sanity for someone good!
Focus on loving yourself. When they see the confidence in you, that is what attracts a male.
Now this advice is for the future. Under no cicumstances should you be concern about if a guy wants you or not. You're too young right now, just keep your relationships plutonic and time will come when you least expect it.
Hopefully about 5 years from now!!!!!
your 13 dont worry about guys yet. and once your older dont trust them
No matter what you look like, stand proud, confident and luv yourself. Once people see that then they can truely appreciate you, Good Luck!
talk to your momma
You got to make the first move stand up show them guys what you got!
Before you get a guy to like you, you have to like yourself. Think about what your best assets are. If there are things you don't like about yourself that can be fixed, fix it. Not like plastic surgery or starving yourself or anything dangerous like that. If you are worried about being chubby, try exercising and cutting down on sugary foods. Also accept your self for who you are and surround yourself with people who like you for you. Just maybe one of those people is a nice guy who likes you. I'm a teenage girl so I understand what you are going through. Believe me, once you truly love and accept yourself, getting a guy to like you will come easy.
Guys are jerks.
First, someone will love you for you.
Secondly, wait till you are atleast out of college before u screw so that you can get your education be4 screwing it up with a kid. Make a career for yourself first!
be your self confidence is the sexiest part of a person. you are beautiful inside and out
if you are only 13 you be carefull cause the only things want is sex.
i have a friend who shounds jsut like you but older, one thing is don't be shy. You should always be yourself and proud. Guys hate a a girl who is very insecure, you just need to be proud of who you are but also respect yourself.
u sound like me, appearence+ sitchuation. email me when u get good info please!!!!! redgirl92@yahoo.com
at the age of 13 i was chubby too. youre still in middle school dont worry aboutboys right now. what you said really hit home guys can be really terrible and cruel at your age so dont worry about them if i knew then what i knew now i wouldnt have either. look you dont have to take my advice im only 17 so i remember how things were when i was 13 whatever anyone say to you guys, girls whomever dont worry aout be you and keep your head look dont be shy around me if you ever need a friend to come and talk to hit me up at bdjones_78@yahoo.com
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I have a 15 year old daughter and she started feeling really good about herself after she started exercizing. It not only make you look and feel good, but also your new confidence will attract people. Good luck.
Sounds like crap advice, but be yourself. Do things that u enjoy, not what u think will make other people like u. U will meet people with the same interests and hey, u never know!
You have your whole life ahead of you, Boys only have sex on their mind, It is alright to be attracted to someone but do not let it go any further. It is alright be shy that is normal just be you self, in time you will meet someone who likes you for who you are. Ma bey you should sit down and talk to your parents, this is nothing to be ashamed of.
Well, maybe the reason why you are not confidence, is because you are chubby. You should try to watch the food you eat, meaning eat less junk food, and eat better foods such as vegetables, fruits, or maybe even the same foods you already eat, but eat less of it, watch your portions. I am 22 years old, and I too am chubby and not very confident, I should also take my own advice. I'll start exercising tonight, and so should you.
You see, you've fallen into the classic trap of thinking that you have some unique problem of finding a guy. In fact, the issue is that you're being too choosy, only going for the cool musician or the sexy jock. Think about it carefully for a few minutes. You surely believe that a cool, sexy guy would have a good time going out with you, right, even though you admit that you're not very cool or sexy. So, why not turn it around and realise that you could have a good time going out with a guy who isn't the coolest or sexiest guy in the class? Take a look around and instead of thinking about who you would most like to date, think instead about who you would be willing to date, and accept any offers from those guys.
goto the gym and lose some weight if u think u neeed to. idk i never seen u. o yea some girls that cry is a turn off for some guys!
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