Guys what do YOU look for in a girl? Girls plz give some advice too!?

I am just wondering cause maybe I need to change my image some. I am a shy and overweight teenager whom is seeing girls all the time at my school holding hands with their boyfriends. I want one and pretty much don't know if I need to talk some more to more people or if I need to lose some weight or something. PLEASE help me out!Guys what do YOU look for in a girl? Girls plz give some advice too!?
loosing weight is good for you.. you should do it anyway.. i great exercize reg will help you feel better about yourself and get your blood flowing...firstly..


secondly.. meet new people.. that's a great idea too.. especially at church if you go.. my little brother goes and he has a lot of friends through church.. (i'm not religious).. getting your weight under control will really help you feel more confident.. just try 30 minutes a day..at first.. and set a goal! when you reach it.. get your hair done or your nails done or buy a new outfit..


being fit will change your life tremendously.Guys what do YOU look for in a girl? Girls plz give some advice too!?
i believe you should try to lose weight. when girls feel good about themselves then they have a boost in confidence and that is what attracts men. If you feel good about yourself then others will be interested in getting to know u because u probobly wont be as shy anymore. thats another thing, guys dont like girls who arent interesting or enthusiastic so try and be outgoing. why would guys want to get to know u if u feel bad about yourself, r insanely self concious, and very shy. thats ridiculous. losing weight and being outgoing will not only help you but will attract many of the opposite sex :)



This is an answer coming from a man,and not a boy


who might or might not be out of touch with todays


youth. when i was a sophmore,ihad your problem ,


but just in reverse. i was tall and skinny. i was so


skinny,that when i turrned side ways ,i didn't cast


cast a shadow. i watched other boys and girls


going out,holding hands,dancing, kissing,while


i sat home alone,feeling sorry for my self.finally


i had enough,i got tired of sitting home alone


while all my friends were out having fun. i said


to myself, ok you're no Cary Grant,so what,


you're no Charles Atlas, ok, so you're no Fred


Astaire. BUT! you have one thing , that they don't have


you have yourself. you're young , warm,giving,caring,and


yes,attractive,and yes,a little over weight. just more love


waiting to give. do like i did ,quit feeling sorry for yourself,


you would be surprised to learn that nobody paid any


attention to your so called problems but you. just remember


one thing. TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE.


Mr.Right's out there looking for you,how in hell is he gonna


find you, if don't get off your butt and go outside,and yell


out loud,';LOOK OUT WORLD I'M COMING THROUGH';


Good Luck! Eric S
Are you comfortable with your appearance? that is the only person you need to impress..YOU.. If you are comfortable everything that is you, then you do not need to change or alter yourself to make someone desire you. because they will not be liking you for who you truely are.


Confidence and being outgoing is a turn on. So is smileing and being friendly and non judgemnetal towards others.
Some guys go for a look, some guys go for the personlity, so it's different for everyone. But I would suggest Just be who you are and i am sure there is someone out there who would like you the way you are.
I look at their figure. They need to be sexy.


I also don't want some bimbo. I want a smart pretty girl thats athletic with a great personality which I can relate to.
she should have


-great figure


-hot body


-trust


-and she should be smart but less smart than the boy


and if a boy still loves a girl without these features then he is blind by eye or blind in true love
well work out then you will start feeling more confident and then talk to everybody if you want someone they got to know that your confident or they wont waste their time


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i am not a SHY PERSON BOYS LANCENCEN TROW your self and tell the girlz what u feel