off but i think hes seeing others he calls me from time to time i think just to see where iam at. iwant to know if i should tell the girl friend.she been there the whole time.I need some advice i had been seeing this guy for years found out he has a live in girl friend we backed it?
I had something similiar happen 3 weeks ago, but mine was married and yes I told her. You are getting the short end of the stick sweetheart, and for you to keep this secret is enabling this stupid behavior.I need some advice i had been seeing this guy for years found out he has a live in girl friend we backed it?
I would call her. Be very mature about it because you are hurt as well but thought she deserved to know. If you want don't tell her who you are.
Absolutely...tell her! Its the right thing to do....
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Hi (: i'm another 15 year old girl looking for boy advice. may i please have some help with this guy?
okay... so there is this guy who i'm really in to. he is just perfect, i've never seen anything like him before. now he was 'talking' to my best friend... but me and her aren't as great friends anymore but she'd still be mad if she knew i liked him. it's a risk i'm willing to take. he used to like me but i told him i didn't feel a connection. now i just pray he'd want to be with me! is there anything i can do to get him to like me again without coming off as desperate? i really hate texting people first. /: also... should i tell my friend?Hi (: i'm another 15 year old girl looking for boy advice. may i please have some help with this guy?
That's your problem: ';I told him I didn't feel a connection,'; you just basically made him think that you're not interested in him in any way.
And to be honest, if you really want him back, being desperate is probably the best way to make him understand that you made a terrible mistake and you liked him all this time.
Ignore your friend, it doesn't matter between you and her, all that matters is you approach him with confidence and tell him that you were always interested in him.
That's your problem: ';I told him I didn't feel a connection,'; you just basically made him think that you're not interested in him in any way.
And to be honest, if you really want him back, being desperate is probably the best way to make him understand that you made a terrible mistake and you liked him all this time.
Ignore your friend, it doesn't matter between you and her, all that matters is you approach him with confidence and tell him that you were always interested in him.
Dating a guy for 2 months wants to watch me get it on with another girl?? Help need advice?
Ok Im 25 he is 30 we have been dating now for 2 months we are not as of yet bf/gf, he has a fantasy to see two girls get it on. He and I are having sex and its great. I would like to fill this fantasy for him. But what I need to know is if I do this will he still see me as girlfriend material? Or is he just using me? I know he like me and wants to have a realtionship, but is he seeing me as just a good for now girl or will I have potiental in being the there forever girl for him.. Any of your adivce is helpful and thanks in advance.Dating a guy for 2 months wants to watch me get it on with another girl?? Help need advice?
My fantasy is richer and my girlfriend refuses to participate too:
I am tied up on an “X” shaped cross dressed in red velvet, like Santa, horizontally positioned one meter over the floor, while a virgin girl of eighteen, standing over my face is pissing on me. Another girl has my member in her mouth, biting gently the glans while a third one, dressed in a nurse uniform gives me an enema with “Cordon Rouge” champagne.
Girls, girls, participate!!! Our respect for you will be greater.Dating a guy for 2 months wants to watch me get it on with another girl?? Help need advice?
Listen all guy fantasy about stuff like that and dont put yourself out like that or he may take advantage. So wait about another 2 months
then if thinks you are not enough for him then do it one time and that way he can start thinking of you in a different way or you can dump him.
i don't if he wants to be your boyfriend or not.but i know alot of guys that like that sort of thing and doesn't think less of the girl. the real question is ''do you want to do'' and if so do it. And if you are doing it just for him say forget it. It all boils down to want you really want to do.
Talk to him before hand and be honest about it. Tell him how you feel and if he is only there for one thing then you know what to do. Get rid of him!!!!!! Maybe you could full fill his dream later on down the track when you are actually officially a couple so that way you feel more confortable!! Just be honest and if you feel comfortable with him then go for it!!
Simple...only do this if it's something you want to do as well...don't do this just for the sake of satisfying his fantasy...he's not necessarily using you because he has a fantasy and has shared it with you, but he's also not looking to be exclusive with you, apparently. This relationship probably won't last forever if you go down this road right now...fantasies like this are easier to share after you've built a high level of trust and intimacy with your partner...
Good luck whatever you decide to do!
dump him ur his toy
dont even. girl you need to leave him but if your up to that nasty girl on girl thing then go ahead do you
Move on,DUMP him he is USING u
the only reason you should ever do something is because you wanted to. if he tries to persuade you to do something you have no interest in he is using you. tell him if he gets it on with another man then you will get it on with a woiman and he will shut up.
Tell him you are not that kind of girl, and that you have more respect for yourself. more then what he has for you! If you do this, you are doing it for him. He does not care about you, you are a toy to him, who will do anything he tells you to do! He is not relationship material, trust me, and one who asks you to do something like that, is a player, and he is thinking only of himself! I want you to find someone, who will be satisfied with just you! Have a great holiday!
Don't do it.Dump him.
He is using you.
Look at yourself and think ,';i won't ever fill that fantasy for him.';
Is he really worth it?No guy is.
Look at yourself now and think ,';he can fill that fantasy on his own.';
Don't ever do something that stupid just for a guy.
They spread it and then you will be the sorry one in the turn-out.
If you want your relationship to go further and stronger, DON'T FULFILL ANYONE'S FANTASY. DON'T DO IT. You'll regret it. Guys will try to test you see what you will and will not do.
Practical Advise: Don't be so willing to jump and please your guy. Sometimes the word No is good.
do it, he will join in on the action.
he is not serious about the relationship. why would somebody you just met, wants you to sleep with another girl. lose him.find someone who cares about you as a person .
It seems like u are his sex toy...but anyways that is gross that u would even think about having sex with another girl just to make him happy......are u sure ur not bi?
no, if he wants to see 2 girls get it on , he can pay 2 prostitutes to do it. i think you would be decreasing your opportunity of having him as a ';regular boyfriend'; if you participate in this.....
I can tell you that he doesn't want to just ';watch'; he wants to participate. And all you have to do is ask yourself this... Do you want to be in a relationship where he will always want you to sleep with other people? because once you open that door there is no way to close it.
let me no so i can be there?
I would not do that for him because you are not his fantasy toy. Tell him to get 2 hoes and they can do it and you can both watch.
If he respected you he would not be asking you to do that kind of thing. You have only been going out for 2 months and he is already treating you like a piece of meat to make himself happy. It appears to me that he isn't concerned about how you might feel about it. that tells me that he is using you and he does not think of you as a forever girlfriend but as a convenience. DUMP HIM
So you are porking him at only 2 months and totally willing to do whatever he wants in the hope he wants to have you forever. Wake up, girlfriend. Where are you in this? Why are you so willing to just do this guy's bidding?
Ok,Im not very good at this relationship stuff.But if he likes you,he would like for you.not for what you do for him.if your confused,just talk to him.if you want him to love you,or be with you for the rest of your lives,he would understand that your confused and dont think thats right,he will understand.
Tell this dick your not a hore if he likes to watch other people have sex then rent a tape. What ever you decide try not to degrade yourself.
You're being used. If you really want to do it, wait and see if he asks you to be his girlfriend, then think about it.
Oh yeah, don't forget, if you really care for him, you might end up regretting it later, and feeling jealous.
Don't fall for this, this is just a pretext to try and get both of you in bed at the same time. Unless you really want to do it for yourself, don't go along. Otherwise you will harbor resentment that will eventually come back.
go for it see where it goes if he leaves let him at least you will still have someone in bed ya know
ewwwwwww
he's using you.
that would make u a lesb
you should be with him more than two months before you get into that kind of experiment.then after you know him than you should consider having that girl on girl action.i think he is not using you at all.he just want to see your hot body with another girl so he can get turn on when he is watching his girlfriend.so just wait awhile before you leap into it.
u sound like a nice sex toy.
It's really pretty obvious he's using you for sex and is being incredibly selfish too. I think since you are wise enough to question his motives, you could be wise enough to realize you deserve much better, and not a lover who is all about what he wants.
My fantasy is richer and my girlfriend refuses to participate too:
I am tied up on an “X” shaped cross dressed in red velvet, like Santa, horizontally positioned one meter over the floor, while a virgin girl of eighteen, standing over my face is pissing on me. Another girl has my member in her mouth, biting gently the glans while a third one, dressed in a nurse uniform gives me an enema with “Cordon Rouge” champagne.
Girls, girls, participate!!! Our respect for you will be greater.Dating a guy for 2 months wants to watch me get it on with another girl?? Help need advice?
Listen all guy fantasy about stuff like that and dont put yourself out like that or he may take advantage. So wait about another 2 months
then if thinks you are not enough for him then do it one time and that way he can start thinking of you in a different way or you can dump him.
i don't if he wants to be your boyfriend or not.but i know alot of guys that like that sort of thing and doesn't think less of the girl. the real question is ''do you want to do'' and if so do it. And if you are doing it just for him say forget it. It all boils down to want you really want to do.
Talk to him before hand and be honest about it. Tell him how you feel and if he is only there for one thing then you know what to do. Get rid of him!!!!!! Maybe you could full fill his dream later on down the track when you are actually officially a couple so that way you feel more confortable!! Just be honest and if you feel comfortable with him then go for it!!
Simple...only do this if it's something you want to do as well...don't do this just for the sake of satisfying his fantasy...he's not necessarily using you because he has a fantasy and has shared it with you, but he's also not looking to be exclusive with you, apparently. This relationship probably won't last forever if you go down this road right now...fantasies like this are easier to share after you've built a high level of trust and intimacy with your partner...
Good luck whatever you decide to do!
dump him ur his toy
dont even. girl you need to leave him but if your up to that nasty girl on girl thing then go ahead do you
Move on,DUMP him he is USING u
the only reason you should ever do something is because you wanted to. if he tries to persuade you to do something you have no interest in he is using you. tell him if he gets it on with another man then you will get it on with a woiman and he will shut up.
Tell him you are not that kind of girl, and that you have more respect for yourself. more then what he has for you! If you do this, you are doing it for him. He does not care about you, you are a toy to him, who will do anything he tells you to do! He is not relationship material, trust me, and one who asks you to do something like that, is a player, and he is thinking only of himself! I want you to find someone, who will be satisfied with just you! Have a great holiday!
Don't do it.Dump him.
He is using you.
Look at yourself and think ,';i won't ever fill that fantasy for him.';
Is he really worth it?No guy is.
Look at yourself now and think ,';he can fill that fantasy on his own.';
Don't ever do something that stupid just for a guy.
They spread it and then you will be the sorry one in the turn-out.
If you want your relationship to go further and stronger, DON'T FULFILL ANYONE'S FANTASY. DON'T DO IT. You'll regret it. Guys will try to test you see what you will and will not do.
Practical Advise: Don't be so willing to jump and please your guy. Sometimes the word No is good.
do it, he will join in on the action.
he is not serious about the relationship. why would somebody you just met, wants you to sleep with another girl. lose him.find someone who cares about you as a person .
It seems like u are his sex toy...but anyways that is gross that u would even think about having sex with another girl just to make him happy......are u sure ur not bi?
no, if he wants to see 2 girls get it on , he can pay 2 prostitutes to do it. i think you would be decreasing your opportunity of having him as a ';regular boyfriend'; if you participate in this.....
I can tell you that he doesn't want to just ';watch'; he wants to participate. And all you have to do is ask yourself this... Do you want to be in a relationship where he will always want you to sleep with other people? because once you open that door there is no way to close it.
let me no so i can be there?
I would not do that for him because you are not his fantasy toy. Tell him to get 2 hoes and they can do it and you can both watch.
If he respected you he would not be asking you to do that kind of thing. You have only been going out for 2 months and he is already treating you like a piece of meat to make himself happy. It appears to me that he isn't concerned about how you might feel about it. that tells me that he is using you and he does not think of you as a forever girlfriend but as a convenience. DUMP HIM
So you are porking him at only 2 months and totally willing to do whatever he wants in the hope he wants to have you forever. Wake up, girlfriend. Where are you in this? Why are you so willing to just do this guy's bidding?
Ok,Im not very good at this relationship stuff.But if he likes you,he would like for you.not for what you do for him.if your confused,just talk to him.if you want him to love you,or be with you for the rest of your lives,he would understand that your confused and dont think thats right,he will understand.
Tell this dick your not a hore if he likes to watch other people have sex then rent a tape. What ever you decide try not to degrade yourself.
You're being used. If you really want to do it, wait and see if he asks you to be his girlfriend, then think about it.
Oh yeah, don't forget, if you really care for him, you might end up regretting it later, and feeling jealous.
Don't fall for this, this is just a pretext to try and get both of you in bed at the same time. Unless you really want to do it for yourself, don't go along. Otherwise you will harbor resentment that will eventually come back.
go for it see where it goes if he leaves let him at least you will still have someone in bed ya know
ewwwwwww
he's using you.
that would make u a lesb
you should be with him more than two months before you get into that kind of experiment.then after you know him than you should consider having that girl on girl action.i think he is not using you at all.he just want to see your hot body with another girl so he can get turn on when he is watching his girlfriend.so just wait awhile before you leap into it.
u sound like a nice sex toy.
It's really pretty obvious he's using you for sex and is being incredibly selfish too. I think since you are wise enough to question his motives, you could be wise enough to realize you deserve much better, and not a lover who is all about what he wants.
LOOK HERE PLEASE! I NEED ADVICE FOR A DATE WITH A DAMN GORGOUS GIRL (YES IM A GUY) PLEASE HELP!!!THANKS?
DESPRATE HELP PLEASE! I NEED ADVICE FOR A DATE?
ok so i called this girl i really like on the phone and she told me to come with her and her friends to the mall. now this is my first ';date'; if you will with her and i really want to make an impression. the only problem she likes AE and i hate it (prefer hot topic) so i am going to just go with it and not complain. but are there any tips i should know? like what should i were, what should i say, should i buy her something. (we arnt going out its just a friends thing but hopefully if i make a good impression we will be bf and gf someday) anyway, im really freaking out cuz im excited so i need you guys to help me. thanks
yours truly,
NickLOOK HERE PLEASE! I NEED ADVICE FOR A DATE WITH A DAMN GORGOUS GIRL (YES IM A GUY) PLEASE HELP!!!THANKS?
Like I said earlier, just be yourself. Dress how you normaly would. Dont buy her anything unless its food or a drink, cause anything else will seem pushy. Dont try to go to far to fast. And keep me updated on what happens.jane iredale
ok so i called this girl i really like on the phone and she told me to come with her and her friends to the mall. now this is my first ';date'; if you will with her and i really want to make an impression. the only problem she likes AE and i hate it (prefer hot topic) so i am going to just go with it and not complain. but are there any tips i should know? like what should i were, what should i say, should i buy her something. (we arnt going out its just a friends thing but hopefully if i make a good impression we will be bf and gf someday) anyway, im really freaking out cuz im excited so i need you guys to help me. thanks
yours truly,
NickLOOK HERE PLEASE! I NEED ADVICE FOR A DATE WITH A DAMN GORGOUS GIRL (YES IM A GUY) PLEASE HELP!!!THANKS?
Like I said earlier, just be yourself. Dress how you normaly would. Dont buy her anything unless its food or a drink, cause anything else will seem pushy. Dont try to go to far to fast. And keep me updated on what happens.
Ladies, your advice please: A typical situation for a guy to approach a girl?
Hi there
Now firstly i don't really mind how many people find it sad me writing about approaching girls.
I make no excuses, i am a shy quiet guy but one who has great confidence when you get to know me, as seen by my charismatic attitude when i feel comfortable around someone.
Anyone who says this is just sad is in no way an opinion i want ot need to here. I am here asking this question because i do find it hard at times to make that initial approach towards a girl and i am here asking for your opinions ladies.
The situation i would like to ask about is one that took place today.
I went for a drink after work (on my own) as the pub is over the road from me and none of my mates work nearby) and whilst there a set of three girls came in and sat on the table in front of me. The one i fancied the most was sat facing me on the table in front and regularly looked over at me and i looked back at her. I was attracted to her but because i am shy as a guy, i frustrate myself.Ladies, your advice please: A typical situation for a guy to approach a girl?
dont be intimidated. be YOURSELF. apparently, she was interested in you as well. be confident. imagine yourself talking to a regular friend. good luck. if you need more help or advice, feel free to email me.
Now firstly i don't really mind how many people find it sad me writing about approaching girls.
I make no excuses, i am a shy quiet guy but one who has great confidence when you get to know me, as seen by my charismatic attitude when i feel comfortable around someone.
Anyone who says this is just sad is in no way an opinion i want ot need to here. I am here asking this question because i do find it hard at times to make that initial approach towards a girl and i am here asking for your opinions ladies.
The situation i would like to ask about is one that took place today.
I went for a drink after work (on my own) as the pub is over the road from me and none of my mates work nearby) and whilst there a set of three girls came in and sat on the table in front of me. The one i fancied the most was sat facing me on the table in front and regularly looked over at me and i looked back at her. I was attracted to her but because i am shy as a guy, i frustrate myself.Ladies, your advice please: A typical situation for a guy to approach a girl?
dont be intimidated. be YOURSELF. apparently, she was interested in you as well. be confident. imagine yourself talking to a regular friend. good luck. if you need more help or advice, feel free to email me.
Girls and guys: dont know if hes right for me? advice asap kthanx?
this really cute guy, who lives near me, keeps smiling at me and teasing me whenever we see each other. he even walks me home sometimes, but, judging by the way he acts, ide say he has a thing for me i guess. i like him, but i really wouldnt consider going out with him if we ever did get to that stage because....hes a trouble maker, gets in trouble with the police, drinks, and prob other stuff i dont even know of because i havent really asked him that but i dont want to jump to conclusions. by the way, hes not emo or anything, in fact, he plays football, kinda like a jock/skater guy. im a girl whos nice, honest and doesnt get involved wit crazy $hit like that or anything. do you think its a good idea to date a lowlife? what would you do if this choice ever came by?Girls and guys: dont know if hes right for me? advice asap kthanx?
It is your choice to make.
It is your choice to make.
What are the signs. if a guy has a feelings for a girl? i need a tips and advice?
He teases her a lot.What are the signs. if a guy has a feelings for a girl? i need a tips and advice?
calls her alot, wants to do stuff with her, stars at her, smiles at herWhat are the signs. if a guy has a feelings for a girl? i need a tips and advice?
Flirting is definitely a sign, but I am thinking if he is showing her more attention than he used to then she should be able to notice that he has feelings for her. He also starts to be more concerned about things that relate to her and she will always tell the difference. However I am of the opinion that you have nothing to lose by telling the guy how you feel then you know exactly how he feels. The worst that could happen is that he will say he is not interested. And the good thing with that is that you move on and focus your energies on the next guy, rather than spending time pining for someone that isn't actually interested in you. So bottom line if you aren't sure ask... you have nothing to lose...
Check the bulge in his pants when you see him next.
The guy gets shy when he is around the girl he likes.
Guys don't play games like girls do. So if you open your eyes, it should be fairly obvious if a guy is interested.
smiles at her:) gets nervous.. and does goofy things.
teases her. makes fun of her.. wants to spend time with her..
goes out of his way to talk to her... lets her know that he likes her.. theres alot of different things a guy could do. most of all FLIRT! you defenetly know when a guy likes/has feelings for you.. is when he flirts with you alot. when my boyfriend and i met for the first time .. he was smiling ALOT! it was really cute.. theres obvious signs.. and theres the ones that you can't predict.. but as you get to know them more, they start to show up more and more. you'll know:) trust me.
tend to stare at the female, tend to shyer then normal, when ye nearby, pulse should rise too,
Possibly he will call you alot and ask for a date...Look on his eyes and smile at him and if he smiled back on you he had feelings on you...Mostly he loves talking to you.....or hanging out with you too..
calls her alot, wants to do stuff with her, stars at her, smiles at herWhat are the signs. if a guy has a feelings for a girl? i need a tips and advice?
Flirting is definitely a sign, but I am thinking if he is showing her more attention than he used to then she should be able to notice that he has feelings for her. He also starts to be more concerned about things that relate to her and she will always tell the difference. However I am of the opinion that you have nothing to lose by telling the guy how you feel then you know exactly how he feels. The worst that could happen is that he will say he is not interested. And the good thing with that is that you move on and focus your energies on the next guy, rather than spending time pining for someone that isn't actually interested in you. So bottom line if you aren't sure ask... you have nothing to lose...
Check the bulge in his pants when you see him next.
The guy gets shy when he is around the girl he likes.
Guys don't play games like girls do. So if you open your eyes, it should be fairly obvious if a guy is interested.
smiles at her:) gets nervous.. and does goofy things.
teases her. makes fun of her.. wants to spend time with her..
goes out of his way to talk to her... lets her know that he likes her.. theres alot of different things a guy could do. most of all FLIRT! you defenetly know when a guy likes/has feelings for you.. is when he flirts with you alot. when my boyfriend and i met for the first time .. he was smiling ALOT! it was really cute.. theres obvious signs.. and theres the ones that you can't predict.. but as you get to know them more, they start to show up more and more. you'll know:) trust me.
tend to stare at the female, tend to shyer then normal, when ye nearby, pulse should rise too,
Possibly he will call you alot and ask for a date...Look on his eyes and smile at him and if he smiled back on you he had feelings on you...Mostly he loves talking to you.....or hanging out with you too..
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